Friday, September 22

Thought for the day.

A group of alumni, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university lecturer. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee, the lecturer went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups: porcelain, plastic, glass, some plain-looking and some expensive and exquisite, telling them to help themselves to hot coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee in hand, the lecturer said: "If you noticed, all the nice- looking, expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is but normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the better cups and are eyeing each other's cups."

"Now, if life is coffee, then the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life, but the quality of life doesn't change."

"Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee in it."

Don't let the cups drives you... enjoy the coffee.

Wednesday, September 20

This morning is so dull actually.
I looked around me, nobody's in the office except a few. Some of them attending training, some of them MC, some of them overseas, even the bosses is not around.

I'm bored, so here i am writing something and cleaning up sawang2 here in my beloved blog. Eventho i know i'm due to do yesterday's minutes of meeting.

Just to share my first experience in one comittee meeting yesterday. I am the secretary for the meeting, yupp...which as usual i will always prefer doing the writing than do the talking. But yesterday's was so tensed where the madam chairwoman was a really tough one!

The decision done will always be NO, and FYI , she is tougher than the previous chairman which is now transfered to overseas. Anyway, i never really met him pun, just heard it from my boss.
The meeting lasts about 3 hrs, than what we scheduled which was supposed to be only 2 hrs. Penat sehhh take minutes, and at the same time i'm trying to digest what are they really are discussing about... taking over someone's job is so not good, people just dont understand that you know nothing at all...but i'm trying to take a grip on that. You can always learn.

Anyway, I'm due to confirm after 6 months on probation. From what me and my superior had discussed, i am recommended though. My department now are understaff. That explains why you cant really see many people in the office, some of the cubicles are empty. A new staff had just reported yesterday. Fresh graduate too, my boss said that our department is coming back to square one like 4 years ago. All the seniors execs moving out, here come the fresh young ones. Even the SM and a few managers moving out too...

Ramadhan's coming soon!
Am waiting for it, since it,s been 4 years i missed having ramadhan in Malaysia.
But i'm sure gonna miss my ramadhan in brissy especially last year's.
I can still remember how i struggled between my project and then tarawikh and then back to lab...but surprisingly i managed everything!
Those were the days.....which if i have the chance, i would like to go back.

Somehow, i miss the old "me".... i'm probably changed now....but still i wish i can be like before...

"Kamu tau nggak?"
"Sesuatu yg mahal itu apa?"
"Detik yg telah dilewati, kita nggak pernah bisa membeli masa itu kembali"
-OST Alexandria
Salam to all,
Since Ramadhan is getting nearer to us, which i'm sure everyone just cant wait for it,
I would love to share with everyone something about Ramadhan from an email that i get from a friend:

RAMADHAN AL MUBARAK TO ALL MY FRENS !

Wishing all Muslim friends - selamat berpuasa..
Ramadhan hampir menjelang dan persiapan hendaklah diadakan dengan memahami cara beramal di bulan Ramadhan mengikut sunnah dan jangan menjalani ibadah Ramadhan mengikut adat kerana Rasullah pernah bersabda didalam hadisnya :

"Barang siapa menghidupkan sunnahKu ketika rosak umat-Ku maka baginya mendapat pahala seratus syahid. "

Oleh itu berhati-hatilah melakukan amal supaya mempunyai nilai yang tinggi dan mendapat kesan yang baik disepanjang bulan Ramadhan dan dibawah ini dicatatkan amalan-amalan mengikut sunnah.

CHECK LIST AMALAN DI BULAN RAMADHAN
1. Mengucapkan tahniah (Selamat datang Ramadhan atau Selamat menyambut Ramadhan).
2. Niat sebulan bagi malam yang pertama dan selanjutnya niat untuk hari-hari.
3. Sembahyang Isyak berjamaah di masjid/surau.
4. Solat Tarawikh 20 rakaat.
5. Tadarus membaca bersemak dan berturut-turut juzuk.
6. Tidur malam membaca 4 ayat terakhir Surah Al Kahfi supaya dikejutkan bangun tepat jam 4.00 pagi.
7. Bangun jam 4.00 pagi dan setengah jam untuk Qiamullail ringan (Solat Tahjud, Solat Taubat dan Solat Hajat)
8. Jam 4.30 pagi kaum ibu masak sahur.
9. Jam 5.00 pagi/5.15 pagi makan sahur.
10.Jangan tidur sesudah sahur.
11.Solat Subuh berjemaah di Masjid.
12.Tadarus pendek.
13.Matahari tinggi segalah, lakukan solat Isyraq.
14.Menjalankan kerja harian dan menjaga pancaindera.
15.Jam 11.00 pagi tunaikan Solat Dhuha.
16.Lakukan Solat Kafarah Baul 2 rakaat. Rakaat pertama selepas Fatihah baca Surah Al Kautsar 7 kali dan rakaat kedua selepas Fatihah baca Surah Ikhlas 7 kali.
17.Jam 12.00 tengahari tidur, niat tidur waktu Qailulah (ganti jaga satu jam diwaktu sahur)
18.Solat Zuhur berjemaah.
19.Tadarus pendek.
20.Sebelah petang kaum ibu menyediakan berbuka petang.
21.Solat Asar berjemaah di Masjid.
22.Jika masa petang jangan gunakan untuk bersiar-siar atau menonton TV yang melibatkan kemaksiatan. Sebaik-baiknya digunakan untuk mengikuti majlis-majlis ilmu atau berdoa kerana waktu itu amat mustajab.
23. Berbuka dengan ala kadar iaitu minuman yang belum dipanas oleh api atau dengan buah kurma atau buah tempatan.
24.Segera Solat Maghrib di Masjid.
25.Makan malam bersama keluarga.
26.Bersiap sedia untuk ke masjid menunaikan Solat Isyak dan Tarawikh secara berjemaah.

KELEBIHAN-KELEBIHAN YANG LAIN

1. Menghadiri majlis ilmu setiap langkah di beri pahala ibadah sunah setahun.
2. Mengekali berjemaah diberi balasan dengan disediakan sebuah bandar khas di Syurga.
3. Membuat hubungan baik kepda kedua ibu bapa, Allah pandang dengan penuh kasih sayang.
4. Isteri taat kepada suami diberi pahala seperti pahala Asiah dan Mariam.
5. Sesiapa yang menyampaikan hajat saudaranya disampaikan 1000 hajatnya di akhirat.

Mengurangkan berat badan di dalam menjalani ibadah Ramadhan
1. Sebelum puasa timbang badan
2. Kawal berbuka puasa
3. Pastikan semakin lama menunaikan ibadah puasa akan semakin kurang berat badan
4. Elakan daripada makan berlebihan

RANCANG PENINGKATAN IBADAH RAMADHAN
1. Sepuluh hari yang pertama adakan muhasabah amalan.
2. Sepuluh hari yang kedua, pastikan keimanan bertambah kuat dan selaraskan dengan sempena Nuzul Quran.
3. Sepuluh hari yang ketiga kuatkan azam untuk beramal di malam Al Qadr :
i. Dengan melakukan Solat Maghrib,Isyak dan Tarawikh berjemaah.
ii. Atau ditambah dengan Solat Subuh berjemaah
iii. Duduk dengan air sembahyang dan baca Al-Quran, Ayat Kursi, Surah Al Baqarah terakhir (Amanarrasul), Surah Az-zalzalah, Suraah Al Kafirun, Surah al Ikhlas dan Surah Yasin.
iv. Bagi kaum ibu yang uzur, baca zikir.
v. Bangun pukul 1.00 pagi tunaikan Solat Sunat Wuduk, Solat Hajat, Solat Tasbih, Solat Taubat, Solat Istikarah.
vi. Jika sedang beramal, badan terasa sejuk dan terharu maka inilah tanda-tanda mendapat Lailatul Qadar.

SELAMAT TINGGAL RAMADHAN

i. Pastikan Tarawikh terakhir
ii. Ucapkan Selamat Tinggal Ramadhan dengan penuh terharu dan berdoa semoga dipertemukan sekali lagi dengan Ramadhan yang akan datang.